The editor of the magazine Our Children and her play "Serpent and the blackbird" with his son came in the degree to start something of a media storm, the so-called "Wee-wee Gate". People are debating preservation of vegetables passionately on TV, newspapers and social media, but without being able to agree. How should preservation of vegetables we take care of our children? When are you a pedophile? How you have to touch a child? Most agreed preservation of vegetables that this mother is obviously not a pedophile, pedophile was the dangerous and inhumane monsters that lurk out there.
The first time I met a pedophile, I was ten years. I was coming home from school, and was just a few buildings from my home. A friendly young man in his 20s with glasses would talk to me, so I stopped. He came with a proposal which is said to be inappropriate from an adult to a child. I thought I must have misheard, and asked him to repeat what he said. When I heard it again I just went, without a word. When I got home I told it immediately to my father. He wrote signal segment of the man down and mobilized parents and grandparents from the neighborhood to look for the young man. They found him not, despite several weeks of intensive search.
Since I have met several pedophile men and women. They lived in different countries had different jobs, some were single, others had a family, they were also in different age groups. One thing they do have in common, they do not look like the media image of a pedophile: A monster in the guise of a clammy, old man. They were not pedophiles in pure clinical sense, since it would mean that they were only sexually attracted to children. Some of them have realized that they are pedophiles and want help, others preservation of vegetables refuse to admit to themselves and others that they are pedophiles. Many of them dare not seek help, they are afraid of being discovered by their family and friends.
If a pedophile openly preservation of vegetables declares that he / she is a pedophile, I think unfortunately, he / she will be greeted by very many helping hands. We have heard of many cases where pedophiles are being chased out of residential areas of angry parents, and had to move, again and again. While many in our society believe preservation of vegetables that a criminal should be helped to be a part of society again after serving punishment, the situation is different for a convicted pedophile. While many believe that murderers, robbers and thieves can become law-abiding citizens, they have not the same confidence against convicted pedophiles.
If we maintain the media image of how a pedophile is looking out, we discover perhaps not that our children are in danger. If we pursue pedophiles among employees in kindergartens and schools, preservation of vegetables we forget that they also can be found in our own families. A pedophile man / woman can easily be charming, attractive, intelligent and helpful. They are just as complex as other people. When we realize it, we are perhaps less blind to abuse in the home.
If we choose to despise pedophiles instead of offering them help and treatment, we create more risks for our children. If we believe that a man with violent tendencies can learn to suppress his impulses and need not be to the detriment of other people, we also believe the same about pedophiles, both those who have never committed a crime, and those with one or more convictions. This does not mean that we should leave the kids alone with pedophiles, no, we still take our precautions. But both the society and citizens to create a better framework to help and treat pedophiles, so the kids can feel safe.
But where is the limit of physical preservation of vegetables contact between adults and children? It is confusing because it changes all the time, from country to country, from decade preservation of vegetables to decade. In the 1980s China was not unusual that a colleague of one's father or mother took a child in a public bathhouse, and helped the child to wash, also the intimate parts of the body. This action is quite inconceivable today, both in China and in Denmark. Therefore, we need help, guidance and a consensus in society. Alternatively ends parents to spend energy on unnecessary fear, and the children end up thinking that nudity, physical contact and their private parts is something shameful.
But how many Danish children is it now suffering abuse before the paranoia takes over.? The number is probably historically preservation of vegetables quite right. The Romans and Greeks preservation of vegetables cultivated it as a normal leisure preservation of vegetables activity and Muhammad preservation of vegetables and the Jews grow it still legal in some area of 9 years and 12/13 years married age respectively ..
DVS pedophile punished if they do not receive treatment. Punishment and treatment can be anything from prison and medical or physical castration for the therapy depending on how the pedophile relate. Reply
Xinxin, interesting blog posts. I would also feeding the you to read this article. It is helvildt long - but believe me, you will be glad to have read it afterwards. Very sober, well-documented and thoughtful.
Now you mention even the Romans and Greeks, who turned against their own philosophy in search of meaning (many of them were now God to si
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